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Welcome to our living room where each month we
share stories and news about AFS students and
families. Imagine your own living room transformed
into an international gathering place as you open
your home to an AFS Exchange Student.
Host Family FAQs
Q: Are my family and I suitable to host an AFS
student?
A: We look for a secure, flexible, and interested
family
who is willing to share their life with a student from
another country. Your family can be large or small, a
couple with or without children, empty nesters, or
even a single person with or without children. As an
AFS family, you will join families across the U.S. and
around the globe who want to learn more about our
world through hosting an AFS student.
Q: Does AFS have rules for its students?
A: Yes. AFS has three primary rules. If students
break any of them, they will be sent home:
- No illegal drugs
- No driving
- No hitchhiking
Hosted students are expected to obey U.S. laws. We
also limit independent travel by AFSers. You will be
provided with a Host Family Handbook, which
contains information on these rules, at or before your
pre-arrival orientation for host families.
Q: What happens if there is a change in
circumstance while we are hosting?
A: You, your student, and AFS will decide if you
want
to handle the situation together or if your student
should change to another family.
One Thing in Common
A former AFS host family says about their
experience:
"From being a childless couple we became proud
parents of a Brazilian daughter and a German son.
We have learned to be more tolerant and to accept
people as they are now, and not as we would like
them to be. We have a very special family that
extends across
continents, but with one thing in common – LOVE."
Volunteer with AFS
In addition to host families, AFS needs
host "aunts" and "uncles," families who can host
as a welcome family for a few weeks as well as
volunteers to help out with local events. If you are
unable to serve as a host family for a year or
semester, please consider these
volunteer options.
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Throughout the time an AFS Exchange Student
spends here in the U.S., host
families and volunteers open up their homes
and hearts, give helpful advice, and introduce their
international sons and daughters
to a brand new culture and way of life.
In this issue of The International Living Room, a few
students
share compelling stories about their positive
experiences with wonderful host families and
volunteers.
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Here are
some touching comments written by
students about their supportive host
families.
Adrian Lesske, student from
Germany:
"My host family helped me to live the American Way
of Life. They showed me what a family is and what it
really means to be
a part of a family. I mean it is just an awesome
feeling, when somebody that you didn't really know
before, just cares about
you so much, even if you are not a natural part of
his own family. They already have two twin
daughters and an older son,
both of them are busy, but they still show me that I
am very important to them. They make my
experience the experience
that I would wish every foreign exchange student."
Katua Litvinova,
student from Ukraine:
"AFS volunteers and my host family made a great
year
for me, they care a lot about how we feel and if
everything is alright
with us! I am glad that I took a chance to come here
and be here with them. Now I have goals in my life! I
want to study
abroad, to see a lot of countries and be useful in this
world, so I can help people!"
Ika Septi, student from Indonesia:
"Overall, (my host family) taught me a lot. Not only
about
American culture, languages, and school but most of
all
about Life. I learn not to generalize something,
because generalization can cause a lot of problems
and misunderstanding,
I learn that communication is very important, to be
more disciplined in what I’m doing,
and I learn to be more open minded. I admire and
love my host family so much. They somehow influence
my plans for the future too. I think I’m going to major
in International Relations next year, because I want
to work to make the world a little bit better for
someone else through International understanding.
Just
like what AFS does."
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| Biographies of AFS Exchange Students |
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We're
providing biographies of AFS exchange
students so that you can envision what it would be
like to share your day-to-day life with a new family
member. Below are examples of students who will be
participating with AFS.
Tung Hin Wong from Hong Kong :
Tung Hin prefers the name of Isabella, and is the
leader of her school orchestra. She plays both piano
and cello, and enjoys classical and pop music.
She's also very active, enjoying badminton and
swimming, and often jogging with her grandfather.
According to her teachers, "Isabella is a nice and
cooperative girl whose unceasing efforts to better
herself are commendable. She has very good
relationships with teachers and peers." Her mother
particularly likes Isabella's keen sense of humor.
Isabella lives in Hong Kong with her mother. Her
parents are separated, but though her father does
not live in Hong Kong, Isabella keeps in close touch
with him through letters & calls.
Berk from Turkey:
Berk is a creative young man with a passion for
building and racing model cars. He combines this
interest with an interest in graphic design and
Photoshop; he hopes these interests might lead to a
career in automotive design. He also enjoys skiing.
His grandmother describes Berk as "a very nice, calm
and polite boy. He is
very tolerant in his relationships with others. Berk is
a lovely, good-looking and very nice boy."
Berk is an only child and lives in a lively household
that
enjoys the arts. Berk's father owns his own design
firm and his mother has recently gone back to art
school. She came to the U.S. with AFS in 1982.
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Our Mission: AFS-USA works towards a more just and
peaceful
world by providing international and intercultural
learning experiences to individuals, families, schools,
and communities through a global volunteer
partnership.
AFS is a 501(c)3 nonprofit organization.
Contact Us
Our Info Center is open 7 days a week. Please reply
to this email or call 1-800-AFS-INFO (800-237-
4636)
if you have any
questions. Hours: 8am-8pm Mon-Thurs, 8am-6pm
Fri, 9-5 Sat & Sun. (All times are Pacific Standard.)
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